Comments on: Submissive Burn Out – When The Sub Feels They Cannot Do Enough https://arcaneadvice.com/all-lessons-a-z/burn-out-the-sub-cannot-do-enough/ Free BDSM Lessons from The Crow Academy Thu, 02 May 2019 01:15:52 +0000 hourly 1 By: Anna https://arcaneadvice.com/all-lessons-a-z/burn-out-the-sub-cannot-do-enough/#comment-14 Tue, 02 Jun 2015 21:38:35 +0000 http://arcane-productions.com/blog/?p=3#comment-14 Oh my goodness!!! I have to say this IS the definitive article on submission that I have ever read!! As I worked through it, re-reading every paragraph at least twice, I was convinced that this has been happening to me, and I never even heard of it before, or had any awareness that it was even possible! Well I do now, and to say I had a lightbulb moment or Epiphany, is an understatement. Thank you, thank you, so much for posting this and for giving the questions and explanations and the means to be able to fix it. Just in the last two days, I have been listening to that inner voice and allowing it to take two and two and come up with five! Now that I am so aware of this ‘subconscious’ Dom, that I am certain my own Dom must be aware of, but hasn’t mentioned to me as yet, only from time to time that I wasn’t ‘getting it’, and that it clearly concerned Him, causing me much anguish and grief as I tried desperately to ‘fix it’ and even convince myself and Him that I had ‘got it’. Well now, thanks to you, I really have Got It!! and I can’t wait to share this with Him and tell Him. God bless you. This couldn’t have been more well-timed. I am convinced I was meant to read it today, following the inner turmoil of the last couple of days. I can’t thank you enough for this.

Anna. x

]]> By: Sassy https://arcaneadvice.com/all-lessons-a-z/burn-out-the-sub-cannot-do-enough/#comment-13 Thu, 31 Jul 2008 01:55:58 +0000 http://arcane-productions.com/blog/?p=3#comment-13 Im very happy you posted this one!!! Thank you!!

]]> By: Laced / Unlaced https://arcaneadvice.com/all-lessons-a-z/burn-out-the-sub-cannot-do-enough/#comment-12 Sun, 27 Jul 2008 08:20:22 +0000 http://arcane-productions.com/blog/?p=3#comment-12 ^-^ Another insightful and well thought out blog

]]> By: MAGICKART https://arcaneadvice.com/all-lessons-a-z/burn-out-the-sub-cannot-do-enough/#comment-11 Wed, 23 Jul 2008 17:25:46 +0000 http://arcane-productions.com/blog/?p=3#comment-11 You elaborated more from the original article or I read it more carefully. I think women in general tend to do things that no one asked them to do and believe they have to do it. An I don’t mean in a Ds relationship either.I see a ton of Moms volunteering for tons of projects that they don’t have a personal passion for, but they do it because they” Somone’s got to do it”. They wind up feeling ragged and recentful when it is a project or task they truly have no connection to. And sometimes they just continue that pace of sacrificial love. The sad thing is that they often wind up keeping others with a passion for those projects and tasks from shining and block their own enjoyment. Or they try to do things that no one reallly cares about or are impacted by, but something in their brains told them it was important.

]]> By: natashia https://arcaneadvice.com/all-lessons-a-z/burn-out-the-sub-cannot-do-enough/#comment-10 Wed, 23 Jul 2008 16:07:16 +0000 http://arcane-productions.com/blog/?p=3#comment-10 Wow, I think I actually missed the original post of this so I’m so glad you reposted it! It contains such wonderful advice that we can A/all take to heart and apply to our own relationships.
Looking forward to getting my hands on that book of yours!
xo,
~n

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