https://arcaneadvice.com/all-lessons-a-z/the-meaning-of-alpha-slave/ Free BDSM Lessons from The Crow Academy Fri, 11 Oct 2019 08:59:05 +0000 hourly 1 https://arcaneadvice.com/all-lessons-a-z/the-meaning-of-alpha-slave/#comment-75 Fri, 17 Dec 2010 08:04:07 +0000 http://crowacademy.com/blog/?p=53#comment-75 THis was a very interesting read. THank you for posting it on here.
I found it quite useful! 🙂

]]> https://arcaneadvice.com/all-lessons-a-z/the-meaning-of-alpha-slave/#comment-74 Thu, 16 Dec 2010 07:45:35 +0000 http://crowacademy.com/blog/?p=53#comment-74 Oh how I have missed your writings. Beautifully written and understood as a Alpha submissive outside the animal kingdom 😉

]]> https://arcaneadvice.com/all-lessons-a-z/the-meaning-of-alpha-slave/#comment-73 Sat, 20 Nov 2010 12:23:38 +0000 http://crowacademy.com/blog/?p=53#comment-73 I really love this. Very well written 🙂

]]> https://arcaneadvice.com/all-lessons-a-z/the-meaning-of-alpha-slave/#comment-71 Thu, 03 Jun 2010 10:44:11 +0000 http://crowacademy.com/blog/?p=53#comment-71 Hey Arcane, great post! I especially liked the paragraph starting with:
“As for the other issue, it appears you have ingested the Leader / Dominant definition of Alpha and are using this as an excuse to perceive yourself as your Master’s equal in the power-flow of D/s.”
It’s funny how hard it is to get past this for a lot of submissives – I call it the “Suburban Sue” factor, after F.E. Campbell. I’m beginning to treat it more seriously than just about anything else (at least anything I’ve run into). When K asked to be my slave, I had to correct her every time I saw signs of it; it might not be a coincidence that much later, when I had relaxed that particular correction, that Suburban Sue mentality (her taking on the Leader / Dominant definition of Alpha) was part of what destroyed our relationship.
~~Warlock

]]> https://arcaneadvice.com/all-lessons-a-z/the-meaning-of-alpha-slave/#comment-72 Sat, 22 May 2010 19:34:02 +0000 http://crowacademy.com/blog/?p=53#comment-72 Couldnt have said it better myself..or even half that.but has enlightened me on quite a few points.there should be a GREAT communication & trust.one im still working on here within my little realm,if there is menage-o..blah a 3 sum-either sexually or in a heirachy bdsm relationship there is order within & should be respected.sexually yes its like sharing fruit.in bdsm relationship its like building a boat by hand.also with 24/7 or even relationship that encounter other relationships.as in being polyamorous if you will.openess,honesty,communication & trust is a neccessity.good valid points & great to see your bettering others.well done Arcane

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