D/s Training – Arcane Advice

Compliance vs Resistance from the Submissive– How It Affects Everything

Master Arcane — Sat, 18 Nov 2023 05:25:35 +0000

When it comes to any sort of “Skill” involved in Domination & Submission, most people envision the Dominant as the one Requiring Skill, at the very least to be able to use BDSM Toys safely, to Guide, and to Teach the Submissive. But as we at The Crow Academy have Read More »

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High-Protocol Domination & Submission– A Useful Definition & A Bit of History

Master Arcane — Tue, 22 Aug 2023 19:17:08 +0000

In our Facebook group, “BDSM Answers by The Crow Academy,” a fine gentleman asked “What is High Protocol Domination & Submission?” This was our reply, as The Crow Academy is very much a High-Protocol, High-Etiquette school of Romantic Domination & Submission. Enjoy. 🙂 (Interested in joining our Facebook Group? CLICK Read More »

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Dealing With Someone Who Has Dom-Disease

Master Arcane — Tue, 04 Jul 2023 01:40:11 +0000

In a previous lesson, “Dispelling Nonsense in the D/s Community,” I explained the problem known as “Dom-Disease.” In this lesson, I would like to share how I dealt with someone who had Dom-Disease as an example of how you can proceed if you ever encounter someone like this. If you Read More »

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The Serenity of Gifting-Away Personal Sovereignty

Master Arcane — Fri, 16 Jun 2023 23:32:10 +0000

Yes, you read the title correctly and it says “Gifting,” not “Giving.” This is because Personal Sovereignty, the right to live your life as you want, and to do with your own body as you will, is everything in the modern world. For centuries, and even millennia, people have fought Read More »

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Topping from the Bottom: Why it’s Bad and When it’s Good

Master Arcane — Mon, 14 Nov 2022 02:57:33 +0000

Many have heard the term, “Topping from the Bottom.” A variety of definitions have arisen in regards to this fairly straight-forward concept, but not all the definitions agree on When, Where, and How this term becomes an accurate description of what is occurring. Most people perceive this idea as completely Read More »

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For New Dominants: “Are They a Submissive or a Slave?”

Master Arcane — Fri, 16 Sep 2022 00:56:52 +0000

A novice Dominant posted this question, which reflects what we at The Crow Academy see as a gross misunderstanding of the meaning of these terms on a very deep level. The question was posed as though there was some “magic indicator” that would let a new Dominant flawlessly know this Read More »

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How To Create Rules – A Primer For New Dominants

Master Arcane — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 23:38:09 +0000

A new Dominant wrote to me asking, “How & Where Do I Start Creating Rules As A New Dominant?” At The Crow Academy we get this kind of question very often. Not surprising actually, as the world of BDSM is so vast and varied that for a newcomer it can Read More »

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Why Basic D/s is The Best Foundation

Master Arcane — Wed, 04 May 2022 20:32:23 +0000

Today’s Lesson: Why straight-forward, down-to-earth D/s makes for the best foundation in all cases of the many D/s variants. We hear a lot about DD/lg, Pet Play, and Brat Play / Resistance Play relationships as some kind of Core Identity for that relationship, and yet these kinds of relationships near-constantly Read More »

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Successful High Heel Training – Crow Academy Style

Master Arcane — Sun, 20 Mar 2022 01:06:42 +0000

Certainly “High Heel Training” is a very real element of many Styles of D/s. At The Crow Academy we have taught numerous submissives who ere unfamiliar with walking – and even dancing – in high heels how to do so with excellent results. Whether you are the Submissive who wants Read More »

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The Monumental Importance of Honesty in BDSM

Master Arcane — Sun, 03 Oct 2021 22:02:32 +0000

We all know that COMMUNICATION is critical for a healthy and flourishing D/s Relationship. Amongst other things, this includes an Absolute PACT of Honesty. To be clear, Honesty does NOT include things that are genuinely unknown or “in-flux” such as a Soft Limit where one is unsure where they lay Read More »

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