An earnest female submissive wrote me asking if I could talk about how and why emotions, feelings and love are so much more intensified within a D/s Relationship, and why the intensity can so deeply affect one’s daily vanilla life, including even a simple argument. She asked if there was Read More »
A relatively new male Dom wrote me asking advice on how to keep an existing long-distance relationship going while adding his and his girlfriend’s newfound love of D/s into the picture. He explained how the roles of Dominant and submissive just sort of grew out of a natural, almost vanilla Read More »
A Dom-Dom couple (both people are Dominant; neither is submissive) wrote to me asking how and where they could find a submissive for the two of them to Co-Top. I wrote them back with advice on their exact question, as well as an extensive answer regarding THE BIG QUESTION that Read More »
A Dominant buddy of mine wrote to me asking how I thought he should handle ambient Jealousy from his Alpha sub despite the fact that he makes it clear to her that she is Number One in a polyamorous relationship where he trains more than one submissive…. I liked answering Read More »