A submissive woman wrote me describing how she met a somewhat Dominant man who she was hoping to turn into a more strongly Dominant man. She had tried various attempts to elicit his style to measure up to and match what she feels she needs, yet was starting to come Read More »
A collared slave wrote me telling me she was starting to question her role of slave and being in a D/s relationship, and that she was finding herself in a deep depression. She opened up that she was actually beginning to behave in unethical ways of which she knew for Read More »
A devoted submissive wrote to me asking about a kind of burn-out that any submissive can experience when they feel like they just cannot do enough for their Dominant. My answer was far less straight-forward than you might expect since burn-out like this can come from any number of areas Read More »
An earnest female submissive wrote me asking if I could talk about how and why emotions, feelings and love are so much more intensified within a D/s Relationship, and why the intensity can so deeply affect one’s daily vanilla life, including even a simple argument. She asked if there was Read More »
A relatively new male Dom wrote me asking advice on how to keep an existing long-distance relationship going while adding his and his girlfriend’s newfound love of D/s into the picture. He explained how the roles of Dominant and submissive just sort of grew out of a natural, almost vanilla Read More »
A Dom-Dom couple (both people are Dominant; neither is submissive) wrote to me asking how and where they could find a submissive for the two of them to Co-Top. I wrote them back with advice on their exact question, as well as an extensive answer regarding THE BIG QUESTION that Read More »
A Dominant buddy of mine wrote to me asking how I thought he should handle ambient Jealousy from his Alpha sub despite the fact that he makes it clear to her that she is Number One in a polyamorous relationship where he trains more than one submissive…. I liked answering Read More »